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No one can tell me what’s going on in my life. Only I know exactly what I’m going through & have been through. You don’t know what my situations have been like..Only I know exaclty what it felt like. I know exaclty what has happened to me in every aspect in my life. You may think you know me but you don’t. As soon as your telling me what happened & what didn’t happen in a certain situation, or telling me who I am or how I feel, I know you don’t know me. Yeah, I know ignorant people will keep running their mouths about how they know my life & feelings so well But I want a say in it.

I just don’t understand..Why cheat? If your not happy with someone..or you want someone else just leave. This rant isn’t referring to anyone in particular, it’s referring to all cheaters. Cheaters..or most cheaters will try to act like they didn’t do anything wrong, they get mad at the person who left..they act as though the person who left did something wrong when they didn’t..All they did was leave you for cheating…? Nothing is wrong with that..What goes around, comes around..Think before you act. It’s never okay to cheat. If they know you cheated, & they ask just be honest, don’t be afraid of being in trouble or feeling guilty. Your probably going to feel guilty anyways, might as well deal with it. If you can’t not cheat in a relationship then don’t be in one. Seriously just be single. Also don’t get into a relationship just because your feeling lonely. I don’t know about anyone else but I know I’ve always had the mentality to be fine with being single..being able to be happy, not dependent on a relationship to feel complete & happy. A lot of people don’t have that..I’m thankful I have that mentality.

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I always find myself in this kind of situation. A situation where it has to seem like I’m the “bad guy”. I don’t want to explain the situation in specific details. Basically, when people or if someone mistreats & does messed up unfaithful stuff to me I’m not going to let them keep doing it. I’m going to find a way out of being treated like a worthless peice of garbage…I didn’t want to keep feeling like crap everyday,No one likes to feel unappreciated & taken for granted..so I thought “What am I doing to myself??” I wouldn’t do the same stuff they did to me because thats some messed up stuff..SO I did something as simple as walking away…It was taken the wrong way. I didn’t even get to explain. Unfair, I know. So now its as if I did something wrong…maybe what I said & how I did it wasn’t the best way. But I have WAY more reasons to feel hurt & upset! I felt like a piece of CRAP. WORTHLESS. At this moment I don’t feel as hurt as before because I forgave who hurt me …. Forgiving releases pain I guess.

On the bright side..people are making me smile

Really forgiving people who have hurt you & forgiving your self is a good feeling. All the negativity is gone..if they hurt you & when you finally forgive them, you no wont feel the pain anymore. Being mad at someone, feeling sad & hurt really effects you, no doubt about that. But when you forgive, all the negativity is released. Sometimes it takes time to forgive..but it happens anyways..

People will talk..and talk..I’ve learned not to care what people think or say because I’ve been judged for everything…my appearance, what I say, what I do, how I feel..the list can go on. I used to let it get to me so much, but now I’m okay with it. It was all worth it because it made me have the attitude I want to have…just being cool with it.

I got me, myself, & I….I know I would never disapoint myself..

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Look what I did for my mommy!

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It’s my nature to give my all to people that are respectful to me. I can’t do that if I’m feeling disrespected, I just can’t even if I wanted to. By “my all” I mean ; my trust, my communication…my self. By “myself” I mean I can be myself with them & wont be embarrassed if I do something silly. So if I feel disrespected, I will feel awkward..if I feel awkward I will feel uncomfortable ..If I feel uncomfortable..I will be shy. But if I don’t know you of course, most likely I will be shy.

But if anyone wants me to be my full self with them. That’s totally up to them by the way they treat me. That’s just who I am.

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